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Good Morning, Beautiful! A Self-Love List for the Week

6/22/2014

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💜 Kiss yourself in the mirror

💜 Start each day with something that brings you peace: meditation, a walk around the neighborhood, green smoothie, cuddles with your fur baby

💜 Get outside and do some summer stuff

💜 Treat yourself to a little luxury

💜 Write "Good morning, beautiful!" on a piece of paper (heart shaped!) and place it by your bedside so you see it every morning.

💜 Dance in your underwear

💜 Try one new thing

💜 Write yourself a love letter from your higher self or your older self. Let the writer guide you, inspire you, and love you to bits!

💜 Create a Radical Self Love Bible

💜 Take a friend on a coffee date. Share with each other what you're loving about the week.

💜 Write positive words on your favorite body part.

💜 Write a journal entry or a blog post about your self-love journey. 

Pop on over to the Facebook page or leave a juicy comment here and let me know what you'll do this week to practice self-love. 
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Feed Your Soul

6/15/2014

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To be honest, I've had a bit of bloggers block. No...writer's block. I have a story idea percolating in my head, but I've only just made a brief outline using tarot cards as plot points. I didn't write a blog post last week. I want to write, I really, really do, but nothing comes out. I know it shouldn't be the case because there are loads of things to write about, but I suppose I'm making those writing excuses I talked about in the last post.

But did I mention that I'm also creating a new e-course? The above quote is a little peek into what it's all about. Getting to know your divine self, manifestation, and creating a magical life. 

If you ever find yourself thinking, what's the point? why am I here? what am I doing with my life? This is for you. If you want to know how to invite miracles and magic into your everyday, this is for you. If you want to learn deep manifestation techniques (the kind that come from your soul, not your ego), this is for you. And if you want to get in touch with your higher self, your spirit, and live from that place, this is for you. It's spiritual self-love, practical magic, creativity, and living a bold life all rolled into one. 

I hope to roll it out in October, which is still a bit away, but wanted to let you know about it to keep myself accountable. It's going to be BIG and I know you'll love it.

Now I'm off to drink my latte, then step on the mat for some morning toning and yoga. 

Hope you have a beautiful week! Let me know what you're up to on Facebook :)

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P.S. We're half way through the month, which means another round of Living Poetry will start in a couple of weeks. It's an inspiring, daily reminder to see beauty in the everyday. Click for more info and to sign up!

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5 "Productive" Excuses Keeping You From Writing

6/1/2014

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We've all been there. 

You sit down at the computer or grab your pen and notebook with the full intention of getting some writing accomplished.

You stare at the blank page or the screen, blink, start to sweat, look around...

and then...

all of a sudden something really important comes up. Something that seems productive on the outside, but is really just an excuse on the inside. 

"But I AM being productive!" you say. "These things will help me get further along in my novel/poetry chapbook/research paper/whatever." And to a degree, they will. But at some point you have to put aside the productive busywork and actually start writing. 

Here are five excuses I've used and I bet you have too.
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"I need to do a little more research. As soon as I finish reading this book/blog post/scouring the web for info I'll start writing."
Back in college I came up with a story idea revolving around the relationship between Hilda Doolittle and Ezra Pound. It would be set in modern times, but the characters would remain, for the most part, the same. To take on such a feat, I had to do some research: read biographies and the authors' works and pretty much anything I could get my hands on. I rummaged through second-hand book shops for months and collected everything I could find about Ezra and Hilda. I read and read and read. I'd say I'm an expert when it comes to those two, but guess what? I still haven't written the story.

Research is necessary, no doubt, and when you're doing it you feel pretty dang productive. But the writing doesn't get done. So do your research, then write, then research a little more if you have to, but don't keep researching even after you've researched! Sit your booty down and type out some words. You can always go back and correct if need be.
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"I'll do some pinning on Pinterest for character/scene/world inspiration."
I love looking up photos of people that look like my characters and pinning pictures of things that inspire me to write, but once I get sucked in, it's unlikely I'm actually getting to the writing part.

Set aside time to do activities like this. Give yourself 30 or 45 minutes to pin away then get to the task at hand. 
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"I should probably write a blog post/email/journal/take notes before getting to work on my novel."
Can I be honest here? I'm making this excuse right now. I've had a story idea swirling around in my head for a few weeks, but have yet to sit down and do anything about it. I told myself I'd get to it today, but as soon as I sat at the computer and thought about it, my brain went to Oh, it's Monday! Gotta get the blog post written. It's like we'll do any writing other than the one we really want/need to get to. 

I blame it on fear. Fear that it won't come out right or I'll get stuck or the whole thing will be the most disastrous thing I've ever written. Plus, I'm not that great at plot, which brings about more fear. Novel-writing is outside of my comfort zone, but a blog post? No sweat! I'll just do that.

How about you? What are you afraid of? Let's climb out of our comfort zones and work on our writing fears together. Who cares if it's the most disastrous thing? We can just chuck it and start over.
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"I'm so tired. I should probably take a nap. Then I'll be rested and clear-headed and ready to write."
This is my worst excuse enemy. I get that feeling rested is mucho important for focus and clarity, but I get plenty of sleep. Probably 7-9 hours. So it's kind of funny when I all of a sudden feel the need to take a nap right before I sit down to write. No kidding, it happens 9 times out of 10.

If you're not getting enough sleep, by all means, take a nap or get a full 8 hours through the night. But if you're like me and feel sleepy more out of habit, push through it. Once your mind realizes you're not giving in, you'll perk right up and (hopefully) get some writing done.
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"The house is a mess/dishes need washing/the floor needs mopping a.s.a.p."
Is it just me or would you rather do house chores than face the blank page?

It's pretty amazing how mopping can seem like a life or death situation and the patch of dust on the desk is all at once illuminated. 

I agree with "messy bed, messy head," but the sink of dishes can wait. Tell yourself, "I'll write for an hour, then if I feel like cleaning, I will." Or set aside a cleaning day and write the day after. Surely the house won't be a mess in that amount of time!

So writing peeps, what are your go-to productive excuses? How do you combat them?
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    ​Hello! I'm Cassandra, an American ex-pat living in the Philippines, writer, ballerina, and lover of all things magickal. I blog about happiness, self-love, and magical dream-life living.
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