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The Two Most Important Keys to Manifesting Success

3/18/2015

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The Two Most Important Keys to Manifesting Success
Last week I wrote about how to tap back into your magic and to do so, you must check in with your highest self. I promised you a post this week about how to tap into that self and how listening to her can provide you with the most precious, best guidance you'll ever receive. Grab a cuppa because there's a lot of information here and I really want you to sit with it and soak it in.

I want to share with you a page from Creating Your Magical Life because it explains so much. It's from Week 2 - Self Love.


a radical new you


To really start loving yourself and making things happen, you must change the concept of who you are. Why? Because to accomplish anything, you must expect it of yourself. First ask yourself, what is my concept of myself? What labels do I wear?
...your concept of yourself is all that you accept and consent to as true. - Neville
Chances are you think of yourself in terms of what you've achieved, what your talents and abilities are, your likes and weaknesses. Maybe you're a musician or a writer, smart, middle class, dog lover, prone to sickness, vegan, shy, outspoken, tall, curvy, what have you. These are things you believe about yourself and the ingredients that make up who you are on the outside. But what about the inside? What do you believe about that part of you? Is it able to perform miracles? Is it able to heal sickness? How much faith does it have? This is where the work begins – changing your beliefs about who you
are on the inside. The outside is only a reflection of what you've believed about the inside.
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Ever since you were a tiny baby you've been conditioned to live an ordinary life. This life was acceptable by cultural standards. You've been programmed to think a certain life path was the “good” and “right” one. You know, get good grades, get into college, score an awesome job, climb the career ladder, get married, have a few kids, build the house, and play with the dogs in the backyard. Not that
there's anything wrong with that, but I'm betting you have something else in mind.

If you're anything like me you've kind of thought normal life was, well, normal. And normal doesn't cut it. You've studied hard, played by the rules, paid your taxes, get to work at 8 a.m. every morning and that's left you feeling a bit...lacking. Normal life is what gets handed to you. It's the life your human self says, this is A-okay to. You're content, your life's not half bad, but it ain't half good either. It just is.

Your spirit, on the other hand, needs something more. It needs expansion, freedom, immensity. Have you ever felt that? Have you ever felt like your soul wanted to burst out of your body? So much energy swirling inside, needing to do something, go somewhere, but there you were. It feels like being trapped. Dr. Wayne Dyer puts it this way:
Your invisible self...[is] the part of you that knows you have greatness, and is stirred by the idea of you expanding and removing all limitations.
Your spirit needs freedom, and it won't shut up until you give it exactly what it needs. You may try and quiet it by indulging in egotistical pursuits (shopping, eating, alcohol, etc.), but it only stays quiet for a
little while.

So this is the journey you're on – changing the concept of who you are and any limitations you may have. With your spirit, there are no limitations.
When, therefore, you put aside your preconceived ideas, your self-centered scale of values, and let intuition have its way with you, you open up by this act new levels of the world. -Evelyn Underhill
This is your new reality. In this reality everything is possible. The life plan you're living or told was the one true plan no longer exists. Press delete on the programs that were downloaded into your mind as a
child. Prepare to upload a new definition of who you are and the power it holds.
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The two most important keys for successful manifestation


1. LOVE YOURSELF
Love yourself, all of it, inside and out. Believe in your divine spark. Know that you are a holy human with a spirit that is more powerful than you've ever thought possible. Know that you are always co-creating and have the ability to make your biggest dreams come true. To love yourself is to know the power you hold.

2. LISTEN TO YOUR HIGHEST SELF
Your highest self is your spirit self, the self that knows what is best for you and what you really want. When you listen to your highest self, the possibilities are limitless. She knows how to get where you want to be. When you follow her, you will be 100% successful in your pursuits.
...stay aligned and know that you too can and will do great and greater works when you cast out all doubt about your own divinity and live as you are encouraged to live. -Wayne Dyer
So how do you get in touch with your highest self?

Chances are you do it without even realizing. It's your intuition. It's that little heart tingle you feel when you imagine yourself living your dreams. It's the voice that says no when you've just been asked to take on another draining project.

Sometimes it whispers and sometimes it screams. Mine whispered for a long time, quietly leading the way, but when I didn't listen, it screamed. It made my stomach curl and my heart rebel. It made me miserable. 

I recommend meeting with your highest self and seeing what she has to say. You can do this by:

  • Getting still and quiet - meditating. Or find a guided meditation. What do you feel? What images come up? Write them down.
  • Keeping a record of your dreams. Dreams are full of symbols and sub-conscious yearnings. Write out as much of your dream as you can remember. Take note of things that stand out. Look up the meanings of symbols.
  • Writing yourself a letter. Have a question in mind, then let your highest self do the writing. Sometimes she just wants to tell you how much she loves you.
  • Journaling. All the stuff swirling in my head rarely makes sense until I write it out and read what I've written. Maybe your head is too clogged to get a clear picture of what it is you want and the steps to take to get it. Write, write, write. All the thoughts, all the feelings. If nothing else, you'll feel a bit lighter.
  • Being aware of your feelings. The happy, the ache, the envy. Does your heart hurt every time you watch a dancer on television? Maybe you should look into dance classes. Does your heart sing when you're gardening? Keep doing that. Do you feel raging jealousy when someone you know gets published? Maybe you should start writing that novel again.

Do what works for you. Just pay attention to the pushes and pulls of your spirit and whatever dreams you want to manifest are sure to come into your life. When you co-create with your divine spark, there are no limits. Magic awaits you.


If you enjoyed this post and the snippet from Creating Your Magical Life, you'll love the full program. There's still time to register!
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5 Tips to Help You Believe in Magic When Life Gets Tough

3/9/2015

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Victor Nizovtsev
Magic is what happens when you have encountered the Divine. It is the life-altering experience of connecting to the divinity that dwells within yourself and in the world. ~Phyllis Curott

Magic isn't always perfect and it's not always beautiful. Practicing magic and living a magical life is an art, a way of looking at things, a way of bringing light into darkness. When you practice things like manifestation or spells and rituals or just try to infuse your everyday life with a bit of sparkle, you must remember that faith and action are always your guiding forces, even if nothing goes to plan.

An internet friend asked how she could believe in magic again. Everything in her world seemed to be upside down, depressing, covered in a haze. Nothing she did felt magical. Nothing she envisioned manifested itself. She started doubting her beliefs and wondered if magic was real.

I've been there too. I spent many hours wondering where the magic had gone, the magic from my youth. Why did everything look so blah? Why weren't my dreams coming true? It felt like I was living my life in a black and white photo. 

So how do you rekindle that magic? How do you believe in it again?
I have always been delighted at the prospect of a new day, a fresh try, one more start, with perhaps a bit of magic waiting somewhere behind the morning. -J.B. Priestley
First, you must remember that there is beauty in tragedy, light in dark corners, and gifts to be found in even the most difficult situations. 

Just because things look like they're not going your way, you must have faith in the journey. You must keep believing, keep dreaming, keep opening your palms to receiving. 

Second, you must look at life as art. Even the ugly parts. Look a little longer. Sometimes you can't see the beauty right away.

Third, you must connect with your highest self, your divine spark. She knows what you need more than anyone or anything else. When you get disconnected from your highest self, things can go awry and life can feel topsy turvy. You might have everything you thought you wanted, but still feel angry or sad or disappointed. If your ego is running the show, you won't feel fulfilled. If things don't feel right, you feel lost and weak, like nothing you do is working, tap into your highest self, stat! Listen to what she has to say. I'll be writing about how to connect with your highest self next week, so stay tuned. 
You must learn to get in touch with the innermost essence of your being. This true essence is beyond the ego. It is fearless; it is free; it is immune to criticism; it does not fear any challenge. It is beneath no one, superior to no one, and full of magic, mystery, and enchantment. -Deepak Chopra
Fourth, don't push too hard. Sometimes life requires us to let go and go with the flow. When things get muddy and hard to walk through or you thirst for a bit of healing water in the desert, close your eyes and imagine yourself floating down a calm river. Let your bones and muscles relax into the water. Let your spirit refresh itself by just letting go and trusting that the river will take you where you need to go.

Finally, remember that magic is in the details. It's not always a momentous occasion or an in-your-face spectacle. Magic is the violet-colored butterfly, the first sip of coffee on a Monday morning, the intentions you set each day. Magic is made of everyday stuff, including you! You are the cosmos whirling and twirling in infinite space and time. 

When you can't see the magic on the outside, look for it on the inside. {Click to Tweet!}

That's where it all begins.

You are magic, life is magic. No one and nothing can take that away from you. 



Looking for more tips on magical living, manifestation, and making dreams come true? Creating Your Magical Life is open for enrollment and starts April 6!
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March Tarotscopes

3/1/2015

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aries (mar 21-apr 19)

The Magician
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The important thing to remember this month: let your energy flow. Only then will the magic be able to happen, whatever that means for you. Focus your will, passion, and joy and creativity will move through you. Use your hands, like the magician with his drum, to create something. Whatever is in your imagination now will manifest into reality when you put faith and action together. If you feel creatively blocked, ask yourself where your focus is. What's taking up space in your heart and mind? Do whatever it takes to free yourself so your energy can flow once again.

Affirmation: I have the power to manifest my desires.

Action: Set up micro-movements (small goals) for whatever it is you're working toward and see yourself getting closer to your dreams each day. 


taurus (apr 20-may 20)

The Tree (Hanged Man)
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The question you need to ask yourself now is How can I let go? What do I need to surrender? The hanged man teaches us that what we think we can control is an illusion. Sometimes it's better to let go and let God/dess. This month, get back to nature and take time to pause. Still your inner noise and surrender to what is. If you feel like your world is upside down, don't fear. Just take a moment to find the gift in what you're experiencing. Clear a space in your soul and let the experience unfold as it will. When you don't force things, you receive gifts of enlightenment and love.

Affirmation: I find serenity in surrendering my life to the Great Mystery.

Action: Consider starting a meditation practice. Even if it's only for five minutes before dashing off to work, creating space for silence yields great results.


gemini (may 21-June 20)

Three of Air
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You may experience a whirlwind of thoughts and feelings. Whether they're positive or negative, take time to jot them down. Use the tools of the writer to release all those ideas percolating in your head or the emotions that keep bubbling to the surface. Record your dreams to find patterns. Take out your journal (or start one) and put it all out on the page. Writing is your tool for self-exploration. 

Affirmation: Insights emerge as I document my thoughts and feelings as words. 

Action: Make it a month of Morning Pages. Before you start the day, take a few moments to write down whatever is taking up space in your head. It will help you get clear and focused and may bring insights/ideas.


cancer (june 21-July 22)

Nine of Air
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Like the woman on the card, you may be experiencing a time of grief. Emotional sorrow can be quite exhausting, so it's important to find a sacred space and allow yourself to truly feel the emotions. Then, release your sorrow into the earth and let it be transformed. The universe has your back.

Affirmation: I allow Mother Earth to heal my sorrow as I open my heart in compassion to others.

Action: Follow this grounding meditation to let go of all the things that are weighing you down.


leo (july 23-Aug 22)

Eight of Earth
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Sometimes impatience gets the best of us, especially when it comes to our visions, skills, and heart work. If you're frustrated with how long a project is taking to get out into the world or that you haven't found a way to share your gifts, practice patience and love the process. Things happen in their own good time. If you need to, find a mentor and be willing to put in the hours of practice and training required. And remember, keep doing what you do! The world needs your gifts.

Affirmation: I cultivate patience as I learn so that I may share my gifts with others.

Action: Watch this video on success, failure, and the drive to keep creating.


virgo (aug 23-Sept 22)

Four of Fire
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You are strong, beautiful, humming with energy. It's time to celebrate your inner power. You can do so by acknowledging a rite of passage, doing a self-blessing, or creating an act of magic. How about creating an altar or a sacred circle and letting your powerful energy move up through you as you celebrate?

Affirmation: I am strong and courageous and have the power to accomplish anything I choose to do.

Action: How do you celebrate yourself? Do a dance, write yourself a love letter, take a luxurious bath. Whatever makes you feel strong and beautiful, do that!


Libra (sept 23-Oct 22)

Eight of Air
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This month your challenge is to transform your vision into reality with help from your friends. Whether it's a mastermind group, a circle of friends you meet up with weekly, a co-worker, or family members, now is the time to gather the minds and co-create. It might be hard to let your ego surrender full control, but you'll be greatly rewarded. 

Affirmation: We see it, so be it!

Action: Looking for a group of like-minded individuals? Check out the Wild Sisterhood or the Amazing Biz & Life Academy. 


scorpio (oct 23-nov 21)

Justice
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The Justice card is all about karmic balance and asks you to consider the consequences of the actions and choices you make each day. These choices can affect the environment, people around you, and yourself. If you find yourself in an unjust situation, ask yourself what you can do to make it fair for everyone. Be mindful of the actions you take and vow to leave the world in a better place that you found it.

Affirmation: I strive to be just and fair in my dealings with others.

Action: When you sit down to eat, be mindful of the journey the food took to get to your plate. It may seem silly, but when you understand the process, you understand how important your actions and choices are.


sagittarius (Nov 22-Dec 21)

Explorer of Air
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This month is the perfect time to create crystal clear, longterm plans due to your heightened intuition and insight. It's also prime time for finding alternative ways of doing things. Like the boy climbing the tree in the Explorer of Air, it's your time to explore and see things from a new perspective. 

Affirmation: I climb high in order to get perspective and take the long view.

Action: Is there something in your life that isn't working? Change it around, think outside the box, and come up with a new solution to an old problem.


capricorn (dec 22-Jan 19)

The Teacher (The Hierophant)
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The Teacher card signifies the arrival of a spiritual teacher in your life. It may come in the form of a human, but it also may appear as something in the world around you: wildflowers or song birds or medicinal herbs. It's a good time to get in touch with nature and learn about your environment. Learn the names of your local flora and fauna, where the sun rises and sets, and where your place is on this earth. 

Affirmation: I receive my best spiritual teachings from nature.

Action: Go for a walk and connect with the natural elements you come upon. If you feel a particular draw to something, get closer, study it, find out what it needs to tell you.


aquarius (jan 20-feb 18)

Four of Air
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The Fours represent sacred space and boundaries. It's your time to create your own. Carve out a place for some much needed R&R, prayer, and meditation. Allow yourself to dream and sketch out your ideas. It's important to keep your dreams to yourself now. Don't worry how crazy they are or what people will think. These dreams and ideas are yours alone and tucked away inside your sacred space. When they're ready to go out into the world, you'll know, but for now keep them close to your heart and don't let anyone snatch them away. That includes your inner predators!

Affirmation: I take time to get away to my own little nest where I incubate new ideas and dreams.

Action: Build your "nest" and place your dreams there. Visit and care for them just as a mama bird does for her eggs.


pisces (feb 19-mar 20)

The Moon
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The Moon holds themes of intuition, dreams, imagination, and light and shadow. This month, delve into these themes and connect with the moon on a deeper level. What healing does the moon offer? What information can it give you? Allow yourself to open up to moon wisdom, whether it's through recording and deciphering your dreams or embracing psychic, non-rational realms. 

Affirmation: I am in harmony with the waxing and waning of my emotions and intuition. 

Action: Begin tracking the movement of the moon. Which phase is it in? How does it relate to your current situation?
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    ​Hello! I'm Cassandra, an American ex-pat living in the Philippines, writer, ballerina, and lover of all things magickal. I blog about happiness, self-love, and magical dream-life living.
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